The car experienced an acceleration of 100 m/s^2 during the 20 millisecond collision. That is, the change in velocity in a very short time, produce a large acceleration, a= 10m/s-8m/s divided by 20 ms., equal 100m/s^2.
Force is equal mass time acceleration. The force that acted on the car was the mass of the lorry 10,000kg time the acceleration, equal 10^6 N. One million Newtons.